My name is Luciana, and this is the story of my twin tribe.
I'm Luciana Naldi, Self Care Coach for Mothers. I educate, equip and empower mothers to make their self care a non-negotiable so they can truly thrive as women, mothers and humans. I stand unapologetically for habits and a way of living that supports the mind and the body together. I currently work supporting and guiding mothers, writing and speaking on all of the above as much as I can in between shuttling my 6 year old twins and 3 year old twins and staying happily married.
Here's my story in short order fashion :
* 2008- Extremely happy teaching and coaching high school basketball, Physical Education, Olympic Weightlifting. Became a Certified U.S.A.W. Olympic Weightlifting Coach Level 1 and used it to empower girls to see their own strength and any age and believe in their ability to use their body as an instrument instead of an ornament. Used this model of strength and empowerment to win 3 Championships as a Women's Basketball Coach and take two students to a National Weightlifting Competition in Florida.
*2009 - Married at age 30 to my best friend and man of my dreams. Continued my education and earned a Diploma in Sports Nutrition while teaching and coaching still.
*2010- First set of twins arrives ( two girls), stay home for 5 months then back to teaching. Excited to lose the 70 lbs I gained with the pregnancy, continue teaching and coaching and daily movement. Do my first mini-triathalon to celebrate the amazingness of what my body had endured, overcome and built in the span of a year and a half.
*2012- Second set of twins arrive! ( a boy and a girl) Yikes! Second round of 70 lbs weight gain starts to come off much SLOWER than the first round. Start to feel pressure to change my body to what it was before and become critical and judgmental of myself when that doesn't happen. The more I view my body from a negative standpoint and from what I see lacking or view as inferior, the further I the more pressure I put on myself to change, with less time to do it. I'm nursing two babies every 3 hours AND watching toddlers while my husband is at work. At this time, I take a one year sabbatical from teaching to get my sh*% together.
*2013 - Quit my career to become a stay at home mom and care for the twin tribe. This is when my identity crisis began. No longer an athlete. No longer a teacher. No longer a coach. No longer visible to the world. I struggled deeply at this time with wanting to be independent and have an identity separate than motherhood and wanting to be present and joyful while raising my children. I felt guilty for feeling unfulfilled by only being a mother, when so many of my friends struggled to have one child and I was here popping out litters. I struggled with not contributing financially to the family anymore and came to hate the question " what do you do? " from strangers or people who would ask. I couldn't bear the glazing over of eyes that would occur when I said ' I'm a stay at home mom" when deep inside I wanted to scream "I'm so much more! " This led to a lot of soul searching, introspection and to start a business that failed, but taught me so much, introduced me to personal development and the idea of mindset and gave me the tools to create the life and business that is a true representation of who I am and what I value. Then I began to reach out to others who were struggling and ....
*2014 - Mama on A Mission is born and the teaching and guiding other women to become Self-Care Ninja's in their own lives began.
* Attended Brendon Burchard"s High Performance Academy
* 2015 - Completed Emily Williams 90 Days to 6k and I Heart Success Coaching Programs,
* 2016 - Became Pn1 - ( Precision Nutrition) Level 1 Certified, Took Molly Sapp's Mindset Bootcamp. My Dream Team of People has included life coaches, mindset coaches, business coaches all in an effort to learn, absorb and add to my own mental toolbox so I can get my clients results.
My mission originally was to help myself. To discover what was going to make me feel stronger, healthier, happier and more whole. To learn to accept and love the body I had after babies, even though it wasn't the one I remembered or recognized. To embrace it for all it had done and could still do. I had to change my perspective from one of scarcity and fear to one of growth, learning and acceptance. I had to learn that it was ok that I didn't know what to do all the time and that asking for help was ok. It wasn't a sign of weakness and the answer wasn't always to " get tougher" like I thought it was. To become all the things I wished to teach my children to be, but hadn't yet figured how. Once I figured it out, my mission became to share what I had learned with others. To teach them the tools and the tricks and help them implement the strategies that changed every aspect of my life in a positive way. To help as many mothers as possible re-energize themselves physically and mentally.
If you're ready to start over for the LAST TIME, let's talk! Schedule a FREE call to get to know each other, ask your burning questions and start learning what actions will allow you to get off the hampster wheel of confusion and chaos.